Unfriendly Friends!!!

Something shocking happened to me, which I’ve learnt from, and since then I’ve been using these signs to check my inner circle, which is very important for growth.

Life is full of unfriendly friends.

Some people didn’t die when the arrow was in their chest, they died when they saw who threw the arrow.

Here are 12 Signs of Unfriendly friends;

1. Unfriendly friends plot against you at night and laugh with you in the morning. They smile a lot and act nice to you, but really, they are talking and gossiping behind your back.

2. They appear when they need you and disappear when you need them the most. They are very selfish and self-centered.

3. Your Success threatens them. They get upset when something good happens to you. They are highly covetous.

4. They blackmail you emotional. Takes advantage of you. Cause you pain, hurt you and deceive you.

5. They always try to compete with you and make you feel they are better than you.

6. Unfriendly friends always criticize you negatively. They constantly point out all the negative things about your Life. They don’t see anything good about you.

7. They discredit you and doubt everything you say or do. They hold you in low esteem and spread lies about you. They lack faith in you and belittle your achievements.

8. They are not consistent. You cannot depend or rely on them. They are not trustworthy.

9. Unfriendly friends don’t feel bad or remorse when they hurt you. They never apologize rather they are judgmental; always feeling they are right.

10. They rejoice when something bad happens to you. Your pain gives them Joy.

11. Unfriendly friends will never patronize you even if you sell the secrets to Long Life and Prosperity, all because of envy and jealousy.

12. They are happy when you share your secrets with them, because, they are going to use it against you, to blackmail, hurt or betray you without your notice.

Sometimes, your problem is not the Problem; your actual Problem is the person you tell your problem. The heart of man is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked who can know it?

In conclusion, the only way to avoided and stay out off unfriendly friends, is just do you, stay on your lane, make God your bestie for life, he remains the only one you can trust, in a world filled with fakes. I’m not perfect, in fact not even close to it, but in my imperfections I have discovered God and decided to embrace him with all my might, it’s a pretty tough journey out here, when you love God and decide to honest and open minded. That is to say, no matter how, who you are, people will still be who they choose to be.

The only person you have is you and God.

You are the only person that can either choose to rise above the level where you are, and choose to be better, not for anyone but for yourself so that God will be glorified.

I didn’t write this just to give you signs of unfriendly friends, but to give reasons why you need to draw closer to God in the midst of it all, and reason la why you should focus on rediscovering your potentials and believing in yourself enough to go for it.

💥It takes courage to be different.

So be different and write your own story.

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Have a blessed week❤️